We all seem to think of people all the time, what they will think of us if we do this, what will people say if we do that... sometimes unconsciously, we do what people will seem to like seeing us do. but again, people do not agree.
One day, I remember I was determined to do whatever pleases all those around me regardless what I am doing actaully makes me happy or not. I followed this way for around a month. Outcome of all this was nothing but feeling of depression. I actually felt It was not me acting. that was someone else.
What really amazed me recongnizing and watching people, friends, colleagues around me is their intensive interest in what people would think of them. A very simple example of our egyptian daily life some words like
- Do you think people would like my dress?
- How would my friends and colleagues respond to my new style
- Even the simplest things, we can not overcome People!!
I am not really sure if am right or wrong on this issue. but as far as it is related to me, I always follow my guts, mind and religion in what's right and what's wrong. I do not care about what people would say too much as some people just like to criticize for the sake of it and others do not like the person
Just like Tom Blandi said" Our attitudes control our lives. Attitudes are a secret power working twenty-four hours a day, for good or bad. It is of paramount importance that we know how to harness and control this great force
This definitely doesn't mean that we ignore people; we just need to identify those whom we consider friends to trust. What Do you think Friends!!!!!!
